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Register onto our site. Submit several good photographs of yourself (not made on a mobile). Read our article about tips for taking good photos here.
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Be active! Show yourself as the confident and energetic person that you are. Write plenty of letters (we recommend 40-50) and find out who you are comfortable with and who is interested in you. Read our tips for writing your first letter to your potential Russian bride here.
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Communicate with several Russian girls who you like. See whether they answer your questions and find out if you are comfortable with them. You will have a natural rapport with some girls, whilst you do not know what to say to others. Let your natural inclination help you to choose who you feel comfortable and compatible with.
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Keep your communications short. Ladies generally like short, friendly letters. Russian women may be afraid that they will be let down, and it will all come to nothing so reassure them that you are genuine. They may feel that an Internet love may not become real love. They are looking for a good husband, not a pen pal! Ask for her telephone number, and call her. This is a good way to communicate and really get to know each other.
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If your Russian girlfriend has children, ask her about them. Take an interest in her pets, and talk about her family values. Talk to her about your children if you have any. It is important to discuss family relationships and children’s upbringing.
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After letters and telephone calls, the next step is to come to Russia to meet your Russian bride in person. Stay in a hotel, not in her home, and court your new Russian girlfriend. Let love begin to flourish and when the time is right for you both, you can move in with her.
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Keep arranging the next meeting as soon as possible, and in due course ask her to marry you.
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Our Anti-Scam Program |
We pride ourselves on our anti-scam program which detects and eliminates scammers and false applicants. We have our own list of registered scammers which we check. We also have the experience to see through pretence and single out the scammer. They may change their name, photograph or email address, but they can still be detected. Part of our service to you is to eliminate such people from our list, thereby protecting you.
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| 5 Steps towards changing your virtual relationship a real one |
1. Let your future Russian bride know all that you expect from the relationship. |
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Try to make your expectations clear. Set out your priorities and be prepared to make some compromises. How well does your Russian lady speak your language? What will she do about her profession? Do you like her appearance? Will children be a problem? Remember, nobody is perfect. List your main priorities and decide what is most important to you, and what does not matter.
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2. Think what your Russian bride may require from you. |
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Picture in your mind your life together. Where will you live? How will you live? What is her occupation? Will she continue working after your marriage? What are her interests? Most import of all, what position will you have in her life? What does she want and expect from a husband? Are you willing to meet her requirements, as well as have her meet yours? Remember a successful relationship is based on give and take. Your Russian bride has the same right to choose as you do. Think about what you are prepared to offer her, to make the marriage work. Some men think that just giving a Russian bride the chance to move to their country is enough. For some Russian women this may be enough, but is that really the type of wife you are looking for? If you find your requirements are becoming unrealistic, then start again from the beginning, and make your requirements less demanding. You may have to compromise a little in order to get the right Russian bride for you.
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3. Create a virtual image of yourself. |
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On site we communicate with ‘virtual’ Russian girls and create a person in our own imagination from the pictures, letters and profiles. Think about the image you are creating and portraying. Are you showing yourself as sensuous and spontaneous, or intellectual and serious? Show yourself as a person who is caring and has integrity. Make sure that your letters, pictures and conversations support one idea and do not contradict. Do not write sensuous letters and then talk as a serious and sombre person. Decide what you are and show that personality throughout. Contradictions and misinformation can only create suspicion and mistrust. Make sure you reflect your true self as you communicate, otherwise you will only waste time, and both parties will feel let down and disappointed. |
4. Display energy and initiative. |
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There are hundreds of profiles on line of men looking for their hot Russian brides to materialize. You may begin to communicate with many Russian girls and Russian women before you are successful, but persistence pays off. If you find a Russian girl you like, send her a postcard, or write her a letter. Show her you are serious by paying her some attention. Each day, more girls register, so keep sending letters. The wider you spread your net the better! The more ladies you contact, the greater chance you will have of finding the girl of your dreams. Remember, be attentive, ask her about herself, take her telephone number and call her.
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5. Do not give up if you are not immediately successful. |
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You have no doubt already waited many years, and met many women but have not yet found your bride. One unsuccessful attempt at a virtual relationship does not mean it will always be so. If you are serious about finding your future wife, then it will take time, persistence and courage. Be encouraged by the many people who already have found love through our site. The Internet makes it possible for you to meet a much wider circle of friends throughout the world that are compatible with you. Many of our clients seek Russian brides because their friends have found happiness with a beautiful Russian wife through our site. If after all your attempts you still do not meet a suitable bride, then stop and reassess yourself. Perhaps you are not focusing on the right type of women for you. Perhaps you are not portraying your own image well. Start again from the beginning. Adapt your profile and move on. Above all else, do not even think of giving up. You have so much to gain, and nothing to lose by persevering in your efforts.
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| Scammers and their Systems |
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1. Be very suspicious of a really great photograph. Do not be fooled by professional looking models. There is nothing to say that the photograph belongs to the person who is registering. You know the saying “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is”.
2. The next alert should be raised if someone leaves the guidance of the site and begins contact by private email. This ‘direct’ approach should make you very wary.
3. The next warning sign will be if the Russian bride does not wish to give you her telephone number. It is very suspicious if she says she can communicate with you over the Internet, but has no telephone.
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4. Beware of someone who declares their love for you very quickly in the relationship. Do not be deceived or rushed. If you have received a declaration of love in the second letter this is most likely a scam.
5. The next move of the scam artist will be to close the deal. She will suggest that you meet in Spain, Italy or Germany and may tell you that she has friends there. She may assure you that her friend met her husband there, and that it is the next step. She may say she wants to come to the USA and spend two wonderful weeks with you, or whatever.
6. Of course all this is leading to her asking you for money. Having spun a story she will then ask for money for a visa and to buy tickets for her flight. In some cases she may ask for $1500, or may say she has half the money, but will ask you to help her with the rest. Be on your guard. Be aware that it is impossible for a Russian woman to visit the USA easily. In fact it is almost impossible, and you would never see either the woman or your money again.
look at our scammer list
It is far better for you to build a relationship as we outlined at the beginning, and then for you to visit her. With the support and guidance of our website, you will be introduced to many potential Russian brides. We hope you meet your future wife very soon, with our help.
Sincerely yours, MySpaceWays.com
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